John wanted to have a happy and full-filling retirement.
John considered what would be needed to have a happy retirement.
Thinking of things that would be beneficial to a happy retirement and that was under his control, would help John find a happy retirement.
John remembered hearing Financial Security would help, at least according to all the financial advisors. He had been working for nearly 40 years and invested in his company’s 401K from the start and owned some stocks, bonds and a little real estate. Being financially secure alone would not make a happy retirement for John but would help. Thankfully, he had that covered.
- John knows having a happy retirement could only be truly enjoyed if he had good health, living free of chronic disease. He knew healthy people are generally happy people. He also knows that to be healthy, one needs to be active.
John had a friend who was happy living at an Active Adult Living 55+ Community and was very active with walking and use of the gym at the clubhouse. His friend had really gotten into a game called pickleball and played for one and a half hours two or three times a week, or whenever he wanted as a game was usually going 6 or 7 days a week.
John’s friend also said there was a hospital and plenty of medical office buildings nearby where his Active Adult Community was.
John considered these as some of the things that could lead to happy retirement.
- Having just retired, John was missing the social activity with friends from work. The people in the subdivision where he has lived for 20 years are still working and young couples are moving in. John pondered how to make new friends at his age. He was not meeting that many new people.
John’s friends living in the 55+ Community are always talking about the new friends they have made. With all the activities they are sharing with people, this introduces them to people they like and which share their interests. They go to lunch or dinner with them, even sometimes travel with them. But mostly just share activities like going to trivia, playing bocce, putt golf or playing cards.
John considers that this may be the way he can make new friends and be more active.
- John has a 4 bedroom, three level home with the bedroom upstairs. Last year, John’s wife had a medical procedure and it was difficult even bringing her into the house with the steps, then she had to sleep on a day bed in the living room for a week, with only a half bath on the main level. This is a problem which needs to be addressed. His home is no longer ideal for their needs.
Home repairs were also getting expensive with aging and not very efficient appliances. Tree limbs always seeming to be falling down from the now mature trees. Not to speak of the high property taxes he was now paying on his suburban home in an area that was becoming more urbanized and expensive. Traffic was a nightmare and the road warriors were always in a hurry and would run you over.
John had visited his friend at his 55 Community on the outskirts of the metro area. It was close enough to restaurants and shopping but the traffic had not gotten bad yet. There were community theaters, putt golf, and movie theaters and really anything you would want nearby.
The residents really have a good social lifestyle and seemed to enjoy the people, even more than they did the amenities.
His friend just turned 70 years old and now gets a senior exemption and will not have to pay school tax, which saves a lot of money.
The homes are ranch style and come in different model sizes ranging from 1450 square feet to over 3,000 square feet. Some have basements and some have lofts. John’s friend has a Cumberland Hall model with 2,777 square feet including a nice sun room.
John considered how having a one level ranch house with no steps, more energy efficient newer appliances and HVAC, and livable floor plans with a universal design would accommodate his needs.
Lower property taxes and landscaping included in his HOA fee would save some money.
- Since John is no longer working, he figures it would be nice waking up with a purpose and passion again. With so many things to do at an Active Adult Community, there would always be something to look forward to and people to do it with.
- John knows he and his wife are entering his 70’s and with the life expectancy of the average American only 78, well he is concerned about a death of a spouse and what would happen to the survivor. He hears good things about the social support from neighbors living in an Active Adult Community and the “we are in this together” feeling.
John wants a happy retirement and realizes that moving to an 55 plus Community will make their retirement living easier and happier.
John’s plan is to get an hour of physical exercise a day, make new friends and enjoy being social while being active in learning and traveling as much as he can. He believes living in an Active Adult Community will help him and his wife do that.
Next blog post, we explore how John approaches finding a home in 55 Communities.
2 replies on “Can 55 Retirement Communities Make You Happy?”
Take some time to appreciate the personality of the neighborhood and your prospective neighbors. Retirement will bring more downtime than you may have been used to, and social activities are big in planned communities.
It’s great to know that people who join retirement communities can meet new people and join activities. My grandparents are looking to sell their home and join a retirement community. It makes sense that they’ll want to visit a few and see what each one has to offer.