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How Old Are People Living in Over 55 Communities?

Some people may want to know how old people are that live in an Over 55 Community.  The most relevant people to ask that question are those considering an early retirement and want to consider if they are ready to move in with older people.

A sales associate told me they were heading to the model home park with a couple in their 50s, when they saw a person using a walker. The couple immediately decided they didn’t belong there and they didn’t need to see the model. Another younger couple moved into Del Webb Hilton Head and after a year, moved out because there were too many older people for them.

Is age really as relevant as a 50 year old person thinks?

When you define old age, it is from the perspective of the person doing the defining.

There are a number of quotes about age, but the one I like best is by Bernard Baruch: “To me, old age is always about 15 years older than I am”.

Mark Twain had a good one with: “Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter”.

Back to the question of how old are people living in a 55+ community.  The obvious, they are at least age 55. In an Active Adult Community, the average age of residents may depend on when the community was built.  A community built out over 10 years ago may have a higher average age, than one being built now. This is because a lot of people moved in 10 years ago and are older now, but there have been resales and new people are always moving in.

If you ask the sales office how old are the people living in a community, they will tell you they do not keep a record of the ages.

Living in my Del Webb community which is 7 years old, I will venture a guess that the highest percentage of people are in their 70s. I would guess the next age decade may be people in their 60s, then 80s. There are people fewer in their 50s and 90s.  But the ages are pretty spread out from the 50s to the 90s.

I have admired and been inspired by people of all ages living in our community.

This year in our community, several people in their 80s have beaten me in pickleball and in bocce. Several play softball.  Last year at the National Senior Games, there was a 80 year old that had a faster time than I did for the 5k race walk. (I was age 68)

But even more impressive, I think, are the mental abilities, life experiences, enthusiasm for life and living in the present, people have.

Two members in our writing group around 90 years old are sharp as a tack.  I saw two 90+ years old participate at USA Track and Field events, setting national records.  But I have been most impressed with people in their 80s  and how much they are involved in activities. People in their 70s are in prime time, going as fast as they can to enjoy as much of life as they can.

Many of all ages, like to travel. Many write. Some of the hobbies people have here are just fascinating. Many mange their money well and stay abreast of financial conditions. Politics is alive and well. Volunteering is part of many people lives here. There is a joy of living and zest for what’s next. Being part of their grand kids’ lives is important to many, as well as church.  Staying active and engaged is the key common denominator.

I think most people that move into an Active Adult Community feel younger in a year. It’s all up to you, but you will have lots of good examples to show you how to stay younger.

As long as you are age 55, I don’t think you can be too young to move into an Active Adult Community. Most people I talk with say they wish they had moved here sooner.

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Community Dinners: We Are Family

Today is Thanksgiving and we went to dinner at the clubhouse of our Active Adult Community.

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COMMUNITY THANKSGIVING DINNER – THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 23th – 1:00PM
For those of us at Deaton Creek that are unable to be with family for the Holiday, we will once again have our very own Deaton Creek Family Dinner! For $6.00 per person VDC will supply all the Turkey. The rest of all the traditional fixin’s will come from all of you who attend, Pot-Luck style! When you get your ticket for this event, let us know what you plan to bring. (Mashed Potatoes? Veggies? Dressing? Gravy? Rolls? Pumpkin Pie? Salad? Etc…) that way, we will know all the traditional (and some untraditional) goodies are all available for a real Thanksgiving FEAST! Nobody should ever spend the Holidays alone, please encourage the friends and neighbors you know, that will not be with family, to attend this annual event. PLEASE,

PLEASE, PLEASE make enough food for 10-15, or more, people for the potluck. This will ensure a terrific Thanksgiving Feast! If you are UNABLE to make anything to bring, please still attend! If you need any assistance at all, including transportation, please let us know. We will get you here and home safely. Let’s start putting together an amazing menu! If you want to decorate your table and bring your own dishes and silverware please be sure to let the front desk know. Residents only, up to 4 tickets, per household. If you are a single person you may bring one guest with you. You can start decorating your table any time after 4PM on Wednesday, Nov. 22nd.

Friends Are Family

We sat at table 16 not knowing who we would be sitting with.  I could have looked at the table assignment sheet when purchasing our tickets to see would be at our table, but I thought it would be nice to meet new people. We have been here two years now, but we still run into plenty of folks who we just have never met or who recently moved it.

At our table we dined with Brian and Anne, who we have have met before.  Brian used to be in charge of the Creative Writers Group which I attended for a while and Anne is in another club which I am a member.  It was nice seeing them. They come to the clubhouse for Thanksgiving every other year, rotating a visit with family the other year.

To my right was Sharon and Howard who just moved to our community two months ago. This community has been sold out for a year now, so they bought a resale.  They are New Yorkers coming from a 15 year stay in Florida to be near their son which lives in the metro area. Sharon was very excited about living here and we exchanged information about clubs and activities. They wanted to come meet some more people in their new community  and not to have to hit the road.

I spoke with several friends while there. Larry, our friend now for several years going all the way back to when we met them at the Shag Dance Club at Neimos in Norcross was there.  Larry administers “Larry’s Pickleball Group” which I belong to. His wife Dorothy was not feeling well today, so Larry came down by himself, but took Dorothy a plate back home.

I said hi to Henry, and to Dave, and met Betty’s son. It was pleasurable and relaxing to be among friends, old and new. It’s like being part of a big family.

Enough Food

The turkey was provided and everyone brought a salad, side or dessert. I must say it was quite tasty. They invited us back for seconds but the first time was enough, because we still had to hit the dessert table. We even got a plate to go.

Thanksgiving community dinner
Thanksgiving community dinner

At two o’clock I was like, I’m stuffed and I never want to eat again. At 5:30pm, I’m like let’s heat up our plates.

Well at least after super tonight, that was it for the Thanksgiving leftovers, which is fine with me.

In the two  years we have been here, we have also been to a Valentine Dinner and a Christmas Dinner at the clubhouse as well. There are parties for other holidays as well.

Having community dinners is a real benefit of living in a 55+ Retirement Community. There is really no need to worry about where to go for Holiday dinners, there is always a place here for you. It’s nice to be so close to home and not have to get in traffic. Preparing a side or two takes a little time but nothing like preparing a full Thanksgiving dinner.  All in all, not a bad deal.